“Even when the matter of our missing child was reported to the police, he denied knowing where she was until December, when he said he took her to learn a trade at a relative’s. When my husband came back, I asked him about her whereabouts, he denied knowing where she was, saying I should look for her. ‘Missing’ “I had gone to the market to buy foodstuff one day, only to return and discovered that my daughter was missing.
We have been staying with a relative since December 2016. “When I confronted my husband, he beat me to stupor and drove me and my daughter away.
“When I asked her initially, she did not talk until I involved one of her teachers, who was taking her extramural classes, before she opened up. Narrating how this latest development came to the fore, she said: “I discovered something strange about the way she was walking when she returned home. She said it happened again when the victim was six years. The victim’s mother told Vanguard that she caught her husband with his manhood inside their daughter’s mouth when she was nine months. But her mother, who claimed to have been suspecting that all was not well with her daughter, subjected the latter to questioning, in the process of which she opened up. Vanguard learned that after police and family members’ intervention, the suspect brought his daughter back home in December 2016. During her stay there, the victim was stopped from going to school, as she was assisting her father’s mistress to sell oil bean seed, otherwise known as ugba, at the Alaba International Market. He reportedly took her to his mistress’ home at Ilogbo. Vanguard was informed that the suspect, identified simply as Adimawu, a commercial bus driver, took his daughter away from their Isheri apartment in May 2016, following a misunderstanding with his wife. At the moment, the victim, who was alleged to have been forced out of school while in Junior Secondary School 1, had been treated for several sexually-transmitted diseases allegedly contracted during the said period. She said it started with her father and his mistress holding her legs apart for the woman’s son to rape her. (I used to live there, so I know the situation.) The oldest and youngest have said multiple times they wished they lived with me, while I try to explain to them that they can’t be too picky about food.When she was 9 months, my husband put his manhood in her mouth-Mother …I took my daughter away ‘cos her mother ran mad-Suspect By Evelyn Usman A 12-year-old girl, yesterday, gave a startling revelation of how her father and his step-son allegedly took turns to rape her for seven months in Ilogbo area of Lagos. I hate reading how the kids are hungry and ignored, and waiting for the week to finish so they can come back to their father.
While I disagree-because he can talk to the mother, and offer help-if she isn’t getting the mental health treatment she needs, and needs more time off, then my brother should have full custody. I have spoken to my brother about this, and he says there is nothing he can do. I am frustrated because they constantly text me that they are hungry I know they are picky, but their mom has a “there’s food right there” attitude. She doesn’t feed the children-while they aren’t babies anymore, they aren’t teens either. While I am just the aunt, I worry for the children’s wellbeing, as their mother is chronically depressed (treatment with no therapy, for as long as I’ve known, more than 10 years). Worried aunt: My brother is divorced, for two years now, they have 50/50 custody. He constantly makes me feel lesser than and stupid. He does things that upset me and when I call him out, he acts like I’m causing a scene and being a “crazy and annoying girlfriend.” He treats me like a child, when I am in fact two years older AND I pay for everything (he makes more money than I do, by the way) and constantly cater to him. He even does this in front of his friends.
He turns everything into an argument and then twists it on me like it’s my fault. We also can’t talk about anything-I love to converse and debate about things for fun, and I also believe in talking out our feelings and compromising to have a healthy relationship. I mean, I’ve got nothing on these other women. I don’t know how he expects me to be perfectly okay after cheating on me and making me feel worthless. We argue because he’s emotionally distant, and after being cheated on multiple times, I need a lot of reassurance from him. Apparently I stress him out and we argue too much.